Academy of Management

Leaders Don’t Need to Be Liked

By Daniel Butcher

Becoming a respected, powerful leader often requires a fundamental mindset shift of letting go of a need to be seen as likeable and authentic. In fact, effective leaders don’t dwell on how their management style and decisions will affect their popularity but rather focus on what’s best for the organization and what will inspire employees to perform well, according to Academy of Management Scholar Jeffrey Pfeffer of Stanford University.

Pfeffer, one of today’s most influential management professors and researchers, offers some takeaways on that subject from his book 7 Rules of Power. Leadership isn’t a popularity contest; rather, it’s about levering influence to achieve strategic objectives for the good of the organization’s shareholders.

“You need to learn how to interact with other people across your organization in ways that build your influence and permit you to get the things done that you want to get done,” Pfeffer says.

One of Pfeffer’s tips for current and aspiring leaders is to “lose the self-descriptions and inhibitions that hold you back, for example, the idea that you have to be liked, because, as an executive, you’re hired to get things done, not necessarily to win a popularity contest. Lose this currently popular idea that you need to be quote-unquote authentic, which is, of course, incorrect.”

The best leaders know the optimal course of action may involve breaking the rules, including policies and procedures that fall into the “but we’ve always done things this way” category. Effective leaders embrace innovation and encourage everyone at the organization to do so.

Another key insight is that once professionals have acquired power, what they did to get it will be forgiven, forgotten, or both. Most personnel will fall in line and get on board or eventually leave the organization.

“Once you have power and status and success, no one will care how you got it, and people will people will accommodate themselves, because people like to be close to power,” Pfeffer says.

Once they’re in a leadership position, high-ranking executives shouldn’t be shy about using their power, he stresses, even if they step on a few toes or ruffle some feathers. Leaders who let go of the idea that they need to be liked or loved and instead act decisively may face resistance or even spark anger but will likely earn employees’ respect.

Author

  • Daniel Butcher is a writer and the Managing Editor of AOM Today at the Academy of Management (AOM). Previously, he was a writer and the Finance Editor for Strategic Finance magazine and Management Accounting Quarterly, a scholarly journal, at the Institute of Management Accountants (IMA). Prior to that, he worked as a writer/editor at The Financial Times, including daily FT sister publications Ignites and FundFire, Crain Communications’s InvestmentNews and Crain’s Wealth, eFinancialCareers, and Arizent’s Financial Planning, Re:Invent|Wealth, On Wall Street, Bank Investment Consultant, and Money Management Executive. He earned his bachelor’s degree from the University of Colorado Boulder and his master’s degree from New York University. You can reach him at dbutcher@aom.org or via LinkedIn.

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